Making Daughter- in -law do house work is not "unusual"!

House  work is a responsibility of each and every member of a "House". In this case, whoever is living in a house should take care of the betterment of that house.

Our Indian Society always represents itself as a gender biased system. Where a man will get recognition for his works, but a woman will never get the acknowledgement for her utter dedications and sacrifices.

Society makes us respect the father figure portraying him as an ideal one to follow because he is the earning member. But a mother's activities seem to be something "normal", "usual" except on the Mothers' Day. One day recognition is never enough for the never ending humiliation!

In a century where we are fighting together to protect ourselves from the Corona Virus, we are constantly getting the news of domestic violence! House itself becomes a place of crime!

Kerala High Court claims that "making daughter-in- law do house work not unusual"! Yes, this is truly not unusual! But if the daughter-in- law or the mother- in-law is solely doing the household works then it is really painful and stigmatic for this century.

House is our comfort zone where we can breathe with much freedom. House should not become a battlefield on the basis of household works that should be distributed equally among all the members living in that house. 

Child Abuse

#herstory

In a very tender age I have been the victim of a man's cruel lust &  experienced a traumatic incident which unfortunately every women faces in their lifetime.

I barely knew what was happening to me but that did not stopped that man from stepping into my house when I was alone and try to squeeze the innocence out of my body.

 I really did not had any idea what happened but all I knew that whatever this is I don't like it and this is against my will. By the grace of god , I was able to protect myself. 

But that very incident left me broken. I could not even tell my family anything as I could not put my words together. The kid of 13 used to open the door with a knife in her pockets and even tried to attempt suicide. 

But fortunate enough , I haven't died and here I am ; standing ready to protect every person who faces humiliation. 

To everyone who have faced this kind of things or have not faced but understands the pain , this devils won't stop untill we start to doom them... So , we will.